Why do guys have to ruin things before it even starts?
Seriously, they do. Whenever a guy declares feelings for me within a week of meeting me, I immediately write them off. Why? Because how can you possibly like “ME”, when you don’t even know who “ME” is? I never develop legit feelings for someone unless I’ve known them awhile and have become comfortable around them. Because then I know who they are and I have feelings for the person I know them to be. Sure, I have had crushes, or have felt lust, for people I barely know, but I am able to look back and distinguish my schoolgirl crushes and lust from my actual feelings.
I just don’t understand how you can not know anything about me, yet you like me. Whenever this happenes, I ask the guy WHY they like me. I always get the same, general responses; you’re cute, you’re smart, you’re nice. That’s not enough reason to like someone! I have met adorable cats before who act in a very wise manner, but that doesn’t mean I want to date them!
I want somebody who likes me for the the little things only a real friend would know. Someone who likes me because of the way I squeak when I’m tickled; the fact that every day I laugh in a new, odd way; the way I blurt out random things at inappropriate times; the way I sing and dance spontaneously; my sarcastic, nonsensical remarks; the stupid things I say; my refusal to go anywhere without my camera; my love of animals; the weird faces I make for absolutely no reason.
So if you just met me and have a crush, don’t hit on me or act on your feelings right away. Because any chance we could ever possibly have in the future is ruined by me being unable to trust your intentions.
