Good guys vs. Bad boys
So this girl I go to school with posted a blog about good guys and bad boys and I decided to actually post on this thing and write about my own personal opinion.
So like most girls, I always talk about finding a good guy, you know, Prince Charming to sweep me off my feet. But when I think about it, i don’t know if I really do want a good guy. I mean I want a guy who treats me well, but I think a good guy would be too…..NICE.
Now I know that sounds completely crazy. How can a guy be TOO nice? We’re always getting mad at the girl in the movie who completely overlooks the sweet nerd for the jock who just wants her for sex. The truth is, I think an intermediate guy is best. I mean I don’t want a guy who doesn’t appreciate me and talks down to me, but I don’t exactly want a guy who opens doors for me and always asks me what i want exactly.
that probably sounds stupid, not wanting a guy to ask me what i want. but i kinda like when a guy is slightly controlling. and i dont mean abusively controlling, but i like it when a guy knows what he wants and isnt afraid to get it. dont ask if you can kiss me, JUST DO IT!
and although i’m sure having sex on a bed filled with rose petals is sweet and cute, where’s the spontaneity? where’s the raw, unadulterated passion that’s cultivated in the moment? sometimes it’s nice to just be crude and raw and dirty, opposed to being cute, and perfect, and innocent.
so yeah, i don’t really know if what i want fits into either category exactly. i just want someone who treats me right, jokes around but knows when to be serious, has a sense of adventure, will try anything once, and knows when to get naughty
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